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Flight to Military and Marriage

danabevan | Dec 9, 2013 | Reply

Did you enlist in the armed forces to escape your transgender tendencies? Did you get married believing that settling down in a committer relationship would “cure” you? Is that really what goes on with TGs who enlist or get married? Some studies say yes, enlisting in the armed forces is a flight to hyper masculinity. Having to be the “man” in a relationship may be seen as another “cure” for TG issues. But are these behaviors what they appear to be? Could there be another reason why TGs join the military or get married? Dr. Dana Bevan has another hypothesis.

Male Image and Your Wife

Tasi Zuriack | Nov 18, 2013 | Reply

Most crossdressers understand that the women they are attracted to may not be interested, or even revolted, by the idea of dating a crossdressing male. So the majority of CDs keep it on the down low and do not tell potential partners that they have an advanced feminine side. This often ends up with the woman they do partner with having an image in her mind of her man. One that does not match the whole man, and that leads to problems. Get a woman’s perspective on this male image, with a bit of help from Tasi.

TG’s Spouses Have Support Available

The Editor | Nov 18, 2013 | Reply

There is a organization in central Pennsylvania called T.R.U.S.T. (Truth, Respect, Understanding and Support for Life’s Transitions) Their mission is to help spouses and significant others begin to understand that living with a crossdresser or transitioning spouse is complex and requires the components of the group’s name in order to navigate your life with that […]

“How can we save our marriage when I hate when my husband’s crossdressing?”

Dee | Jun 3, 2013 | Reply

She loves her husband but hates his crossdressing. Can the marriage continue? That’s Dee Levy’s topic today. If she desires a masculine lover can her shaved and soft CD husband satisfy her?

Would you really want this fairytale for your daughter?

Dee | Apr 8, 2013 | Reply

Our ex-CD’s wife has a question that may help some CDs understand why your partner is upset (to say the least) that you never told them about your crossdressing till you couldn’t take it anymore and her she had to accept you or else. Would you want that for your daughter?

Compensation

Dee | Mar 11, 2013 | Reply

Our crossdresser’s wife expert Dee Levy thinks that crossdressers who lie to their spouse by not disclosing that they are crossdressers before the nuptials may be exposing themselves to a lawsuit after the truth comes out and the wife throws him out. Why? Because the trauma may require years of expensive therapy.

Research on the wives of crossdressers: Questionnaire II. Report 3

Dee | Oct 22, 2012 | Reply

Richard F. Docter, PhD is a retired college professor and clinical psychologist. Dee A. Levy is the Founder of the website, Crossdresserswives.com. They’ve collaborated on research about the wives of crossdressers. Here is a report on their research.

Crossdressing and No Fault Divorce

Dee | Jul 30, 2012 | Reply

Dee Levy feels there’s always someone to blame when a marriage hits the rocks and breaks apart. And she warns that while many states have No Fault Divorce the states that don’t are sure to have crossdresser’s wives saving evidence for the trial.

Book Review: “Something to Confess”

Tasi Zuriack | Jul 16, 2012 | Reply

One day a crossdresser, who has been in the closet for his entire marriage, can’t keep it inside anymore and tells his wife he has something to confess. That’s the theme of a new book by Karen Adler. Our Tasidevil took some time to read the book and provides us with a review.

Stop Crossdressing…

Dee | Jul 9, 2012 | Reply

Can you? Should you? Have you tried? Do you want to stop? Does your wife want you to stop? Have you stopped? What about the sites like stopcrossdressing.com? Are you cured yet? Some believe that crossdressing is purely an addiction and can be stopped. Have you been on the sites that encourage you to stop […]

After All These Years

Dallas Denny | Jun 25, 2012 | Reply

This month Dallas Denny brings words of encouragement to transsexuals who lost their loves when they transitioned. Dallas was exploring virtual worlds when she found, after all these years, a real love.

By Popular Demand

Sophie Lynne | Jun 11, 2012 | Reply

Sophie Lynne has has gotten a big reaction from her readers after her column telling how she told her wife about her feminine side. They all want advice, but perhaps it’s not the kind of advice you would think they’d want. Find out what they want her to tell them in By Popular Demand.

Crossdresser’s Partners Speak — Now What?

Dee | Jun 4, 2012 | Reply

What do crossdressing husbands need to know about that period of time after they have finally told their significant other about their crossdressing? We get advice from the expert, Dee Levy, in this month’s Crossdressr’s Partners Speak column — Now What?

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