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Six Steps After You Tell Your S.O.

| May 5, 2014 | Reply

A great deal of time is spent on the discussion of how to tell a spouse you are transgender. However, telling your spouse is only the first step in a long line of open communication. The most important part is what happens after the initial conversation and your significant other now knows. Here are 6 […]

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TG Politics with Babs

| May 5, 2014 | Reply

In my last blog post I expressed concern about actual and perceived transphobia in the State of New Hampshire, a state with all sorts of gay and lesbian rights including Marriage Equality, but without codified basic protections for transgender people. I received an update this week from former New Hampshire state legislator Mo Baxley — […]

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Part 4 — Jazzy Has a Date

| Apr 28, 2014 | Reply

Several weeks ago Linda Jensen introduced us to Mary/Martin, a grandfather living in Florida who kept his crossdressing life isolated from his family who only came to visit once a year. His grandson Jason was heading into depression and in an effort to help Martin invited him to come visit. Imagine his surprise when Jason confessed being interested in crossdressing. Last month Jason got a makeover and picked a new name. Find out what happens next.

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What Happens When TG Children Grow Up?

| Apr 28, 2014 | Reply

A lot has been written in the clinical literature showing that transgender males grow up to be gay. This has been echoed in the popular literature as well. Many parents panic and take their children into the clinic if they see signs of transgender behavior in their children. Ethical therapists will provide supportive counseling for […]

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Review — Casa Valentina

| Apr 28, 2014 | Reply

The new Harvey Fierstein play “Casa Valentina” has opened on Broadway. It’s the story of the crossdresser resort in the Catskill Mountains in 1962 where Virginia Prince proposed the creation of Tri-Ess. Jan Brown of the MHVTA support group attended a preview night with several other ladies. This is her review of the play.

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The Occasional Woman — Stay Sassy

| Apr 28, 2014 | Reply

Lorraine Anderson, the woman behind The Occasional Woman custom clothing service, has filed another post with advice for trans women on their personal style choices. If you’ve read her other posts you may be surprised when you read what she has to say today.

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Calpernia Addams at Hamburger Mary’s

| Apr 28, 2014 | Reply

TGF Editor Angela Gardner was on the west coast last week and she stopped into Hamburger Mary’s in West Hollywood for a couple of cocktails, a little dinner and a great show hosted by Calpernia Addams. After the show she got a photo with Calpernia and had a chance to ask her about the controversy over her stance on the use of certain words in the TG community.

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My Take On the Trans 100 List

| Apr 28, 2014 | Reply

A few weeks ago the 2014 Trans 100 List was published. Dallas Denny looked over the List and posted an op-ed about it on her Chrysalis Quarterly website. She has graciously allowed us to re-publish it here.  In their work, Brevard is GRATEFUL for the accomplishments of other activists. They ASPIRE to be the best […]

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The Art & Magic of Feminine Illusion

| Apr 28, 2014 | Reply

A new contributor joins us today with her perspective on what it takes to successfully transform into an acceptable, or even outstanding woman. Serena Harris is talking about transformation via makeup, hair styling and flattering attire. She feels that while many men are just to manly to dress up, those with the proper attributes can do quite well en femme.

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David de Alba Interviews Libby Reynolds

| Apr 21, 2014 | Reply

David de Alba has done a large number of interviews with female impersonators from the golden years of impersonation. He has graciously allowed TGF to re-publish his interviews and today we bring you another of his encounters with an accomplished entertainer named Libby Reynolds. Glimpse the world of female impersonation in the ’50s and ’60s and read about Miss Reynold’s encounter with Perry Mason.

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Full Time

| Apr 21, 2014 | Reply

Full time work is increasingly hard to find as corporations send American jobs overseas tax free without caring about the fallout this does to their country, just so their stockholders can make an extra dollar or two. This outrage was supported by… What? Oh. Sorry Angela. You meant Full Time as a WOMAN. *puts away […]

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A Christine-Jane Cartoon 4/14

| Apr 21, 2014 | Reply

Christine-Jane has been commenting on the crossdressing lifestyle for years. First appearing in trans-magazines and newsletters before there was an Internet, she now comes to TGForum to skewer crossdresser foibles and fears with her pens and pencils. If the ladies in her cartoons seem familiar it’s because they are. We’ve all either met them or been them. Today: a lesson in hearing what you want to hear.

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TransVocalizers — Great Drag Music Videos — and more

| Apr 21, 2014 | Reply

In TransVocalisers Pamela DeGroff presents two music videos — “Princess Boy” by Aline Queen and “Animal” by Berlin that feature males in drag interacting with the female singers. Then she brings you a good sized helping of new music reviews of Billy Porter (Lola from the stage production of “Kinky Boots”), Sevyn Streeter, and Christina Perri. Check out videos and audio clips.

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Weak or Strong?

| Apr 14, 2014 | Reply

Today Nikki Nicole asks if you think TGs are weak or strong. She asks because she’s noticed that some of the community seem to embrace the word “sissy.” Are you a sissy if you have male parts but dress up like a woman? Doesn’t it make you a strong person to face the trials that crossdressing can submit you to and isn’t it being a sissy to hide in your closet? See what Nikki thinks and read Weak or Strong?

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Tasi’s Take on Spring Fashion Trends

| Apr 14, 2014 | Reply

Spring is here. The weather is warming, the stores are stocked with spring fashions, the fashion mags have told us about all the new trends (too many to keep track of) and the runway shows are over until the fall. How do we make sense of it all or do we really even care? Some […]

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Labels and Myths: Part 2

| Apr 14, 2014 | Reply

Continuing on from my last column, where I looked at some of the (many) labels often attached to people from within our community, let’s now look at some of the key myths we are plagued with. Coupling labels and myths together, it’s no wonder that we are grossly misunderstood by the public at large — […]

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PERPETUAL CHANGE — “High Maintenance” by The Sexual Side Effects

| Apr 7, 2014 | Reply

Our hard working music columnist got her hands on a copy of The Sexual Side Effects’ new EP “High Maintenance” and she reviews it today. Listen to clips of the band’s music while you read Pamela’s review. The Sexual Side Effects leader Amber Taylor is out in front of the band and an out TG rocker. Their music is flavored by ’80s and Alt rock ’90s styles. Pamela also has mini reviews of new music from Kylie Minogue and re-released music from Cyndi Lauper. Plus other TG music news!

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How to Love You

| Apr 7, 2014 | Reply

As the transgender world is dug into like an Alaskan snow drift it’s revealing all sorts of things to the world. The community is opening up to a world of questions from the media. With every positive outing there is always a negative shadow lurking somewhere in some other article. I see so much negativity […]

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Moving Trans* History Forward Symposium Reviewed

| Apr 7, 2014 | Reply

Our occasional contributor and TG icon Dallas Denny participated in the Moving Trans* Forward Symposium last month at the University of Victoria on Vancouver Island, British Columbia, Canada. Also in attendance were several other TG icons including another occasional TGF contributor Ms. Bob Davis. Dallas posted a review of the event on her website and has […]

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Book Review: Men Can Wear Dresses Too

| Apr 7, 2014 | Reply

Our contributor Nikki Nicole reviews a book that has just been released by another of our contributors, Catie Maye. The book is titled “Men Can Wear Dresses Too” and Catie says it “…represents not just my personal journey but a journey taken by everyone who in some way does not conform to the society definition of ‘normal.”

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Transphobia in New Hampshire?

| Apr 7, 2014 | Reply

The fight for equal rights for transgendered people has hit another snag in the state of New Hampshire. A gay legislator is working to enshrine “sexual orientation” into the language and excluding “gender identity.” Meanwhile the Human Rights Campaign says there’s no need for a new law protecting TGs in New Hampshire. All TGs there have to do is file their discrimination complaint using being trans as a disability. Get the story from Babs!

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I Was There: Keystone Conference 2014

| Mar 31, 2014 | Reply

The Keystone Conference in Harrisburg, Pa. is recent history. Our Sophie Lynne was there, with a new hair-do, and she has filed a report on the much anticipated weekend. She couldn’t be everywhere at once so she missed some of the goings on but what she does manage to do very well is give a feeling of the event.

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Jason’s Transformation: One Small Step and One Giant Leap

| Mar 31, 2014 | Reply

Today Linda Jensen continues the story of Martin/Mary and his grandson Jason. When last she wrote of them it was to cover Jason’s makeover at a professional transformation service. It was the first time in complete femme mode for Jason and, thanks to Mary’s experience, they had brought along an outfit for Jazzy to wear on the trip back to Martin’s condo. Of course she didn’t want being dressed to end. Where do they go and what do they do in this installment? Jason picks a femme name for one thing. Read on.

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Night of 1000 Gown 2014

| Mar 31, 2014 | Reply

Our political reporter Babs Casbar Siperstein is not all politics and activism. She likes to slip into an ostentatious outfit now and then and what event is better for that than Night of 1000 Gowns. That’s the Imperial Court of New York’s coronation of their Emperor and Empress. Babs was there this past Saturday night and she filed a report and a photo gallery.

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My Confession

| Mar 31, 2014 | Reply

Dr. Dana Bevan has a confession to make. For fifty years she identified as a non-transsexual transgendered person. And as such she kept her TG feelings and desires hidden. She concentrated on service to her country and things stayed that way until the end of the cold war. That’s when her identity had to change and she realized she was a transsexual person. That’s when she also came to feel that no TS should put down non-TS TGs.

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Video Fashion Tip — Eye Makeup Removal

| Mar 31, 2014 | Reply

Today Victoria Williams talks to us about eye makeup. Specifically she talks about how to remove eye makeup when you don’t have any of the specialized eye makeup removers. There you are, ready to get your makeup up off so you wash your face and it’s clean but there’s that stubborn eye makeup refusing to go away. Check out Victoria’s tip for a must-have item that will take it right off.

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