I am married to a long-term crossdresser. Visit my blog at mylifewithacrossdresser.com to learn more about my experiences with this rare community.
The decision to reveal or come out as a crossdresser or transgender is a deeply personal one. There are potential consequences either way. Liberty Storer feels that the timing for a self reveal is all important.
Liberty Storer is married to a crossdresser. She first learned of her husband’s crossdressing after they were married. She willingly helped him live his fantasies until she learned of things he did when she wasn’t around. The couple made the decision to forgo sexual activity while continuing to live together. Liberty started a blog that attracted women in relationships with crossdressers or trans women. In 2022 she had her followers participate in a survey about intimacy with their partners. She shares the results in today’s post.
Liberty Storer wonders why it is that women can wear anything and it’s fashion. A tuxedo? How sexy. Baggy jeans and work boots? Isn’t she cute? But put a man in a dress and that’s a crime. Back in the old days and even now in red states.
Liberty Storer has many cisgender female friends she has met online. Mother’s Day got many of them upset when they learned that their former husbands who had transitioned genders were asking to be honored as moms on that day. Liberty gives a report on the biological mom’s response to that request.
Liberty Storer met Bill nine years ago. He told her of his desire to crossdress and she accepted it as kinky adult fun—even his fantasies of sex with men while crossdressed. When he proposed marriage she accepted and it wasn’t until later that she learned he was putting them both at risk of STDs and other threats by acting out his fantasies in secret. Many, at this point, would walk away. In today’s post Liberty goes in to why they stay married. Keep in mind, being a rat in a relationship is a separate issue from being a crossdresser. There are plenty of crossdressers who don’t lie and cheat on their wives with men they meet online. Liberty’s story is her and Bill’s.
Liberty Storer looks back at her posts since she started contributing to TGForum with a spouse’s perspective.
Liberty Storer talks with a lot women who are now, or have been, married to crossdressers. She finds that many of them have the same question. If he wanted to dress up as much as possible without restrictions from a spouse why did he want to get married?
A woman in Liberty’s partners of crossdressers support group tells them that she is prepared to out her former husband as a crossdresser on social media platforms. While some of the group cheer this woman on Liberty feels that might not be the best way to go.
Many crossdressers engage in hidden dressing, like wearing toe polish or feminine underwear, while they are presenting their male side to the world. Most manage to get away with feeling the pleasure of their hidden crossdressing but now and then something happens and they would be happier if they had worn tighty whities that particular day. Liberty Storer shares her CD husband’s accidental reveal.
Someone viewed Liberty Storer’s blog on living with a crossdresser and found it nasty. They didn’t like it so much that they sent her a message outlining all the reasons it made them ill. This caused Liberty to try and imagine why someone would keep eating something that tasted bad.
Recently Liberty Storer binge watched Transparent and finds that it marked forward movement in people’s understanding of transgenderism. She now believes it was an important step in raising awareness among cisgender people about an often misunderstood and growing segment of our society. Read on for her other conclusions regarding the show.
Liberty Storer got divorced after fifteen years of marriage and met a new man a short time later. He was exciting, sensual, and unknown to her he was a crossdresser. That soon came out and she tried to educate herself about crossdressing in otherwise macho men. While she was attempting to cope with his dressing in private she didn’t know he was not telling her about a lot of his activities while dressed.
Liberty Storer took an informal poll of women who were in or had been in relationships with crossdressers. Eighty nine women completed her survey and Liberty breaks down the resulting data in this blog post.
Liberty Storer is a cisgender woman who is married to a crossdresser. Her goal in publishing her own blog and posting here on TGF is to connect with crossdressers and the people with whom crossdressers share their life or from whom they keep their secrets.
We welcome a new blogger today. Cisgender woman Liberty Storer writes about her experience being the partner of a crossdresser. In 2014 she learned that the new guy she had met, a retired SWAT commander, enjoyed wearing sexy lingerie, stripper shoes, and corsets. Though shocked by it she wasn’t repelled and instead started doing research and writing about the subject.
