General Discussion of Transgender Issues

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  • #60480
    nqtransnqtrans
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    I watched a youtube video today about the non-physical effects of hormone therapy. I’m not on hormones and yet I find that all but one of the discussed changes applies to me, even though I’ve never been on hormone therapy. While my deepest desire is to have a body that matches my mind, but I live in a town where there is a lot of trans-phobia and lack of understanding towards people with gender identity issues. I had a wake up call a few days ago on what I’d likely face, when I saw what another trans-woman had to endure at a shopping centre here.

    #60592
    aurah3artaurah3art
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    I used to pray to god I was a girl and then….

    Hi there, my name is Aura. And I identify as a human being. I say human being because that is what I am, what we all are. But also because I don’t know what I identify as.

    All my life I prayed to god to turn me into a girl. I grew up loving all the Disney Princesses, playing video games only if I could play as the girls. Wrapping a towel over my head and pretending it was my hair. Even having my cousin dress me up as a girl at 7.

    Then I hit my teenage years… I was pulled away from my friendship group. My cousin moved away. My Dad tried to toughen me up through boxing, weight lifting and I started hanging around with guys.

    I loved weight lifting, I loved boxing. It was the cardiovascular feeling that I felt. I suppose Being a female isn’t to be a certain way. We are all different.

    I was also a computer nerd and played a lot of online games. And even got a job as a 2D Pixel Artist – whilst Catfishing as a girl at 16. It ended very badly. The girl I was Catfishing as was my sister whom supported me afterwards for many years. When I finally stopped Catfishing (aged 11-16), I stopped playing games altogether and opened up to my family. I wanted to transition. My sister and my Mum encouraged me to love the body and the face I was born with. The rejection from my Father also swayed me to remain as I was.. so I one day decided that if I am going to live as a male then I am going to be the best male I could ever possibly be. So later in my story. I came out as gay. I got my first boyfriend. I got a job as a Chef. I went to the gym weekly and became very fashionable, growing the biggest muscles I could grow and wearing the most stylish suits I could wear. And I loved myself!

    Finally I started to online game again, but instead as myself. My real self. The boy face I had. And I became a leader of a group in a MMORPG game called Final Fantasy XIV. They loved me. I had friends and I wasn’t Catfishing anymore. I became an honest person.

    Then I got into a domestically abusive relationship in which I escaped this year after 7 years of being trapped.

    Now this year after being alone. Self reflecting. I have dressed as a girl many times. I had what I would call a spiritual awakening. And I changed my name to Aura. For me it isn’t about what I look like but what is on the inside. But sometimes this is contradicted. Because..

    I wanted to be a girl my whole life. And now I can be. I have gotten into a relationship with an amazing man whom has provided me with Refuge and a safe place to transition. Whom is into trans girls. He is not gay, he doesn’t find me appealing when I’m in boy form. Only as a girl – but has made sacrifices and has been with me as a boy also.

    This is added pressure to my journey. Because after all these years. Now, I do not know if I want to transition anymore. I grew to love myself as a boy. The body I was born with. So all of this year has consisted on me wanting to transition, to feeling completely different another day. I decided to lose all my muscle this year. And I feel good for it. One day I go out as a girl, the other I go out as a boy.

    Still a deep part of me wants to transition. But another is struggling to let my boy form go… because I can’t go back. It is a big decision. My boyfriend now, he’s supportive and lets me be a boy sometimes… but this is added pressure. He treats me differently when I’m a boy. He looks forward to when I’m a girl. And he’s entitled to feel this way. I know what I’m in with. With him…

    But with myself. I almost ended our relationship today because I need to go on this journey without anymore pressure. To be me no matter what that is. How do I know which path is the right one?

    I just don’t know anymore.

    Aura xo

    #60595
    nqtransnqtrans
    Participant

    Article in local newspaper here about a woman being harassed and abused at a local club because of her more masculine appearance. Yet another reminder that I must repress my desire to live full-time as a woman (here) else risk ending up in hospital.

    #60638
    Anonymous
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    #61433
    SteffSteff
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    Hi lovely people, this is my first post on TGForum. My name is Steff, I’m 51 years old, AMAB and a transgender woman, living in Belgium (EU). I’ve been in psy therapy now for almost a year now. I have not medically or socially transitioned yet. So here I am, still in the very beginning of my journey. And now for the real reason why I’m posting. 😉

    The attitude of most people here in Belgium towards transgender issues is neutral to quite positive. Hey even our vice-prime-minister is a transgender woman, well respected! Anyway, I started to notice that lately the transgender theme has become a popular conversational topic during social gatherings.

    Yesterday evening was New Years’ Eve of 2021 and my wife and I were with some friends. And of course, at one point the discussion steered towards the transgender topic again. Usually I’m very articulate during conversations, but when the transgender topic is discussed, I feel a cringe inside myself… and I feel blocked. I’m unable to think, and feel my face flushing…

    I think that my dysphoria is evolving, whereas a year ago, dysphoria was primarily triggered by physical traits, voice and being overweight. Now I experience more and more social dysphoria and – to be honest – it’s killing me inside.

    I feel a strong urge now to come out to the whole world – no matter what. But another part of me is holding me back…

    So this is it. Thank you for any thoughts and support!
    Steff

    #61688
    JrottiJrotti
    Participant

    Hello, everyone. I’m a teacher. And I have a student transgender. I recently found out that his mother does not know that she has a son, not a daughter.
    And now, I don’t know what to do. I live in Russia, where everyone think, what there isn’t no one LGBT+ person in this country.
    Well, my question: how to explain to parents that their child transgender? (I was not taught this at all.)

    #61763
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Can anybody tell me from where I can get the Transgender Surgery in Vizag?

    #61876
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    You then should find a psychologist in on your island and if they are not familiar with gender transition you can give them the Standards.
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    #63128
    Anonymous
    Inactive

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    #64695
    Mizuno22Mizuno22
    Participant

    16 year old trans girl transitioning to a boy. Is there a starting point to contact potential suitors for transfer of guardianship? In short, she needs to be with like minded parents who use proper pronouns.

    #64708
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    a question for those who changed sex with which genital organ is more pleasant in sex

    #65187
    yoyo lalayoyo lala
    Participant

    cnn

    #65188
    yoyo lalayoyo lala
    Participant

    The rainbow flag is a symbol of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) pride and LGBT social movements. Also known as the gay pride flag or LGBT pride flag, the colors reflect the diversity of the LGBT community and the spectrum of human sexuality and gender. As a TG, show your pride with a rainbow dildo now.Using a rainbow flag as a symbol of gay pride began in San Francisco, California, but eventually became common at LGBT rights events worldwide.

    #65191
    Shraddha PandeyShraddha Pandey
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    what about transgender woman married to normal man due to society pressure ?

    I am from Gujarat India, it is common in my society to get transgender married

    Can we talk about a transgender’s identity struggle

    common misconception is that a transgender person is therefore gay. However, being transgender involves gender identity and not sexual.

    #65192
    Shraddha PandeyShraddha Pandey
    Participant

    A transman can marry a transwoman and vice versa

    Shraddha Pandey

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