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  • in reply to: How Do You Know if You Are Trans? #69210
    PollyPolly
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    Maybe 5 or 6. To be precise, I don’t know the concept of transgender, but feel that they are different from ordinary people.

    In my childhood, other boys like toys, like to play games and I must be different. They like cars, guns, toys, but I like girls’ toys. And I like girls’ clothes and dress up. All my interests and habits are probably closer to those of a girl. But those were just the first steps, and they weren’t enough to make me realize that I was transgender. Finally, I probably realized that I don’t like girls, I like boys. But a lot of people might say, well, and then you should be gay. But gays just like the same sex, and their other habits and interests are normal. If I am transgender, then I am not satisfied with dating men, and I want to live as a woman. What I want is for me to be a woman.

    In fact, many transgender people can tell from the time they are a few years old that they are different from ordinary children. It’s just a long process before they know for sure.
    https://apps.apple.com/us/app/transgender-dating-transfun/id1601589816?l=en-us

    in reply to: Men Attracted to Trans Women #69197
    PollyPolly
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    I don’t know the exact number of men who like transgender women, but it’s definitely more than you think. Several of my friends are trans women, and they have to date mostly straight men. They are looking for dates on transgender dating apps, where many men want to date them. And if you look at the number of male sign-ups on some transgender apps and websites ( https://apps.apple.com/us/app/transgender-dating-transfun/id1601589816?l=en-us), you can see that many men want to date transgender people. I don’t know for what reason these men are doing this, but the result is the same, they are willing to date transgender people. They also want to date transgender people.

    It’s possible that they like the transgender community themselves, and they’ve always wanted to date transgender people. Or maybe it was curiosity. People have experienced regular relationships, and for some people it’s no longer new, so they want to try something they haven’t tried before. Of course, it is also possible to be attracted by the other person’s charm. There are some people who don’t think they will like transgender people at first, but gradually become attracted to their charm during the encounter and feel that there is nothing strange about dating a transgender person.

    in reply to: Dating While Transgender #69176
    PollyPolly
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    You’re absolutely right that telling people you’re transgender up front is good for dating. Bless you, you have a happy life. I’ve been through this before without telling him I’m transgender before a date, only for him to find out later. We split up, and he called me some really bad names. I was on my first date as a transgender, and I was just trying to be discreet, and it didn’t end well.

    Sometimes it can be fate, like you, you and your husband met in the library, like it was meant to be. Fortunately, he also respects and supports your decision. My boyfriend and I met on a transgender dating app ( https://apps.apple.com/us/app/transgender-dating-transfun/id1601589816?l=en-us?. At first, we just shared our lives, and I would tell him some of my troubles. I’ll see you later. We were friends at the time, and I had been disappointed on the first few dates, so I was reluctant to date. He and I were good friends. He was very positive, very respectful of me, and he was very supportive of my decision. He said he thought I was a cool girl who was brave enough to go after what she wanted in life. I heard him and I thought he was a very nice boy.

    A few months later, he confessed his love to me. At that time, I was very tangled, in fact, I also have a good feeling for him, but I was afraid that I would not have this friend after breaking up. But he made me trust him. Now it turns out he didn’t let me down. We’ve been together for over a year. I’m going to take him back to my parents soon, and I’m sure my parents will love him too.

    in reply to: Trans Impact on Socialization #69175
    PollyPolly
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    For me personally, I discovered the difference between myself and other boys at a very young age, maybe at the age of five or six. I don’t like any of the toys that other boys like, and I don’t like playing with them. I prefer girls’ toys and I prefer to play with girls. My parents tried to correct my interest, but all failed. When I was young, people didn’t know what transgender was, so I just thought I might be a little more feminine.

    As I grew older, there was a desire that became stronger. I began not to be satisfied with girls’ toys, I began to want to wear girls’ clothes and use their decorations. I want to be a girl. Whenever I see girls walking together in the street, happily shopping hand in hand and laughing, I am particularly envious.

    How can I describe this feeling? It’s like there are 10 million bugs eating your heart, and you want to catch them, but you can’t, and you’re stuck in a state of anxiety and helplessness.
    Now that I’m a real transgender woman, I still can’t breathe when I think about the previous scene. I’m sure we’ll all get better in the future.

    Now I also talk about boyfriend, in the company of boyfriend, I gradually feel that they are a real girl. I can flirt with him or I don’t have to do anything. All of us will be healed.
    https://apps.apple.com/us/app/transgender-dating-transfun/id1601589816?l=en-us

    in reply to: General Discussion of Transgender Issues #69174
    PollyPolly
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    Before you consider transitioning, you can try to live a man’s life and see if that’s what you really want. Some women are just more open and direct in character, but it does not mean that they are transgender. So you really need to think before you transition. I have always liked the female way of life before I transitioned, and I have always believed in my heart that I am a female, so my transition will be natural. When you feel that you are a man in your heart, that is the best time for you to transition.

    I understand you have a lot of questions in your head right now, and you’re probably feeling very confused. But everything is difficult at the beginning. Taking the first step is the most difficult. As long as you firmly go out, in fact, the difficulties behind are not so difficult. You can write things down when necessary. Put them in chronological order, one thing at a time. That’s what I did, and you get a sense of accomplishment when you finish something, and you have more confidence to go through the process. Come on, when you actually become a transsexual, you will feel that it was all worth it.

    in reply to: Dating While Transgender #69160
    PollyPolly
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    I totally agree with you. We have to be true to ourselves, so that others fall in love with our true selves. The reason I decided to be transgender was because I wanted to be true to myself. I’ve been living the way I like for more than 20 years, and I can’t live the rest of my life that way. Ever since I came out as transgender, I’ve been very happy. As you said, online dating can give you a lot of information in advance. And I tell people the truth about me. If he doesn’t like dating trans people, then we can call it a day. This saves a lot of unnecessary time. I also want the people I like to like me for who I am. Now I’m going to recommend the app that I use, and it really works. The app is called TransFun, and it’s a dating app designed for transgender dating. It was also recommended to me by my friends, and I recommend it to you now. There are so many users of this app that you don’t have to worry about finding a date anymore.
    https://apps.apple.com/us/app/transgender-dating-transfun/id1601589816?l=en-us

    in reply to: Dating While Transgender #69051
    PollyPolly
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    I don’t think it’s hard to date a transgender person. Those who find it difficult may not be looking for the right path. We all know that it is very difficult to choose transgender people to date in real life or in our social circle, because our social circle has been relatively fixed, it is difficult to meet many transgender people, so we want to date them more difficult. In fact, the same is true for transgender people; they also have no way to find a date.

    So there are a lot of transgender dating apps, these apps are specially designed for transgender people, so it is very convenient.All my transgender friends use an app called TransFun? https://apps.apple.com/us/app/transgender-dating-transfun/id1601589816?l=en-us?. They say the app is very good, full of features. And now you can get a free membership by signing up for the app, which feels like a good deal. If you don’t like it, just log out. You can try it. It doesn’t cost anything.

    in reply to: Men Attracted to Trans Women #69049
    PollyPolly
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    There is no absolute answer to this question, mainly depends on personal interests. In my experience, I know that many men are attracted to transgender women. But we can’t deny that there are still some men who are not comfortable dating transgender women. Everyone has different interests and different choices, which is normal.

    In the case of my friend, she is a transgender woman. As long as I’ve known her, she’s never stopped dating. She’s even more popular on the transgender dating app?TransFun ?https://apps.apple.com/us/app/transgender-dating-transfun/id1601589816?l=en-us?. ?She posted a few photos and got a lot of people wanting to talk to her and ask her out to dinner. Her current boyfriend is also a straight man, and the two have been together for more than half a year. They’re still very sweet. I can see that the boy is very considerate and attentive and treats my friend well. I can see that many men still want to date transgender women.

    in reply to: Men Attracted to Trans Women #68779
    PollyPolly
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    That’s true. Now a lot of straight men want to date trans women. I don’t know if they really like trans women or are curious about their bodies. But me as a trans woman, men are starting to want to date us and that’s actually a good thing. I haven’t dated in a long time since I became a transgender woman. I always worry that men won’t like trans women. I’ve recently started looking for dates on TransFun and it’s been pretty good. There are a lot of trans women in this app, and there are a lot of men who like trans women. So I don’t have to worry about getting a date. If you like dating trans women, then you can try that too. I’m sure I won’t let you down.

    in reply to: How Do You Know if You Are Trans? #68738
    PollyPolly
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    I’ve known since I was a kid that I’m not like other guys. Their toys are cars, soldier; But what I like is girls’ toys. I was crying and asking my mom to buy me a Barbie. At the time, I didn’t know the concept of transgender, so I just thought I should be feminine. Since I went to junior high school, I found that I like boys. I have a crush on a boy in my class, but I’m afraid to say it. I thought I was supposed to be gay. But it’s a little different from being gay. I’m crazy about girly things. I want to be a girl. I want to live as a girl. There was a time when I was very confused and miserable and I didn’t know what kind of person I really was. Then I searched the Internet for people who felt the same way as me, and gradually I came to know the concept of transgender. I knew right then and there that I was transgender. I am now a true transgender woman and have a boyfriend who loves me. My boyfriend and I also met on a dating app called TransFun. This app is specially designed for dating couples. Because of the emergence of these apps, it has become easier for us transgender people to date. I think the Internet is really a boon to mankind.

    in reply to: Dating While Transgender #68736
    PollyPolly
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    I totally agree with you. We have to be true to ourselves, so that others fall in love with our true selves. The reason I decided to be transgender was because I wanted to be true to myself. I’ve been living the way I like for more than 20 years, and I can’t live the rest of my life that way. Ever since I came out as transgender, I’ve been very happy. As you said, online dating can give you a lot of information in advance. And I tell people the truth about me. If he doesn’t like dating trans people, then we can call it a day. This saves a lot of unnecessary time. I also want the people I like to like me for who I am. Now I’m going to recommend the app that I use, and it really works. The app is called TransFun, and it’s a dating app designed for transgender dating. It was also recommended to me by my friends, and I recommend it to you now. There are so many users of this app that you don’t have to worry about finding a date anymore.

    in reply to: Dating While Transgender #68722
    PollyPolly
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    You’re right. As long as we are true to ourselves, others will like you for who you are. The true joy of being yourself is unimaginable. When I became a true transgender woman, I became my true self. I am no longer afraid of others’ eyes and opinions, and my own happiness is the most important thing. Before, I was always afraid that people would know that I was transgender, and I lived in fear every day. Until I met my current boyfriend. My boyfriend and I met online and from the beginning he knew I was a transgender woman. He told me you’re most beautiful when you’re yourself. He likes me for who I am. He wanted me to be myself. Don’t care what others like or don’t like, it’s enough for us to like ourselves.

    in reply to: Dating While Transgender #68715
    PollyPolly
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    Wow, you’re so lucky. I’ve been having trouble finding a date. So I was very upset for a long time. Now I met my current boyfriend, but we met on a dating app (TransFun), one of those apps for transgender dating. So he knew I was transgender from the start, but he always treated me with respect. He made it seem like trans dating wasn’t that hard. Because of his appearance, I feel that the whole world has become a better place. Because all my previous dates were terrible, the guys stopped contacting me once they knew I was transgender. So now online dating is still very convenient, you can know each other’s information in advance. You don’t have to meet offline if it’s not good.

    in reply to: Dating While Transgender #68689
    PollyPolly
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    Since I became a transgender woman, I haven’t been out on a date in a long time. I think dating as a transgender woman is a little difficult. I often encounter men who won’t continue to date me once they know I’m a transgender woman, which I find a little distressing. My friends have all found boyfriends on an app called TransFun, which makes me jealous. They asked me to give it a try. It’s really hard to find a date you like in the real world. I’m going to have a try when I’m free. What if I find my true love on that app. I really want to go out on a date. I’m really tired of being alone.

    in reply to: Men Attracted to Trans Women #68679
    PollyPolly
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    Is it true that men are attracted to transgender women? I am a transgender woman and I often worry that I will never get the chance to date again. I haven’t been out on a date in a long time since I became a transgender woman. I was worried they wouldn’t want to date me if they knew I was transgender. I’m a little worried about people knowing I’m a trans woman. And I haven’t met any men in real life who like shape-shifting women. What am I supposed to do? I really want to go on a date.

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