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  • in reply to: Crossdresser Corner #54005
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    ^.^

    I try very hard not to appear to other people in anything other than
    full female attire, including wigs, blouses, skirts, panties, and so on.

    Currently, I am actually finding that Wal Mart has rather nice-looking
    clothing that is often quite cheap, so I try to buy at least two copies of
    whatever I am buying. 🙂

    Amy

    in reply to: Dating While Transgender #53865
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    ^.^

    Well, I think I will get this out, because there is not a place in these forums sepcifically for talk about sexual topics, and this topic sounds the closest to it, but I figured I would get this out to people who at the very least will understand.

    I am 52 years old, and I figured out I was trans in 2011, and came out late in 2014. It has been interesting doing this in conservative SE Wyoming, but I have generally been treated well.

    On the subject of dating, I wish I had the problems Carla describes. Sounds like she has/had one strong steady relationship, and the guy just has to be reminded that the job, combined with DA VIRUSTH just wreaked havok on the relationship for a bit.

    In my case, up until about 2018, I had a series of one night stands, where I would meet a man on Craigslist, get together, have sex, and maybe perhaps I would see him again, and we would do it all over. However, it seemed to work.

    My situation is, I am a pre-op trans person, and I will always be so. I can not go into a transition because of my health conditions. However, I also enjoy sex, and my mind feels that it is a woman, so …

    I have determined that I have develiped basically an auto-erotic fetish, where while having sex, I imagine myself as a woman, while a man is having intercourse with me, and Iuse my own genitals as the man. The female portion of sex is almost purely in my mind,except for my panties, which I wear during sex.

    Even at the age of 52, the orgasms are in a range from having to struggle to get there, to being mond-blowingly stupendous. I think perhaps the biggest thing I enjoy is the near complete loss of power and control that I feel when I envision myself as the woman during sex. I am a submissive, and a bottom, and I accept this.

    The issue I had was not being able to tell anyone, or talk to anyone about this.

    Amy

    in reply to: How Do You Know if You Are Trans? #53864
    AmyJacksAmyJacks
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    Dear River,

    It is up to you to define yourself. A professional counselor can help, but in the
    end, YOU tell us how you feel you are. If straight-up GAY describes you, then claim it.
    If you feel you are non-binary, claim that, and be happy.

    I will point out that some trans people get a bit defensive about what exactly it means
    to be trans. You have to be in some way transitioning from one gender expression to another. Seems kinda exclusionary, but we now have 53 or 56 genders, and they all fit
    under LGBTQ+, so whatever.

    In my own case, I feel I am transgender, because although I can not make the transition because of health reasons, I feel like my mind is that of a woman, I dress as a woman, and I play the role of the woman during sex. I would transition, if I could do so.

    I hope, at the end, you find happiness. That is what is important.

    Amy

    in reply to: How Do You Know if You Are Trans? #53859
    AmyJacksAmyJacks
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    Dear Mertera,

    I think much depends on what you are doing and how you are feeling during
    the act of sex. Are you feeling like a man doing the act to a woman, or a woman
    having the act being done to her? This is inlet ant as it distinguishes a man with a
    fetish from a trans woman who enjoys the act of sex.

    In either case, what is important is that you enjoy yourself, and talk to a professional
    counselor about this, if you feel comfortable in disclosing such things with them.

    Amy

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