Sex and the T-girl

Are there any crossdressing gals out there who have a steady, or at least regular relationship with a man? Even if it’s just for booty call, does it exist? Even on the down-low?I’m just being nosy. I can’t think of at anytime, hearing about such an arrangement.

It must be the sex that trips people up. I’m serious. Sure, one might think everyone in the TG community is all about sex, but knocking boots can be quite ackward awkward.

I’m not even talking about interaction outside of the bedroom. Just the act itself, it seems to me, must be pretty ackward for crossdressers and admirers. Let me explain:

Firstly, consider that most t-girls want to be the girl: in and out of the bedroom. But especially in. I’ve known a lot of CD’s, both on and off-line, and I can’t think of too many who weren’t “bottoms”.

Now, pair up that bottom with a man who is more than like looking for a “top”. If a man wanted a feminine, passive, receiving lover, he could just get a woman, right? So, my theory is most admirers are looking for a t-girl who’s an aggressive top in bed. Add two bottoms in bed and you have two people hoping the other will take the initiative.
Now, also consider the Tgirl-on-Tgirl relationship. These exist. They may only be one-night-stands, but they happen. (Yes, I have personal experience, but that’s none of your damn business. Buy me a drink and I’ll tell you all about them though.)

Remember the “T-girl wants to be the bottom” theory, multiply it by two, and you’re back at square one: When a bottom is forced to be a top, that person isn’t likely to be satisfied.

And also consider that all the accessories of being a T-girl can only get in the way in the sack. You have all those restricting undergarments, like gaffs, corsets, and garter belts that help you look good, but really only block…um…access when you’re getting down and dirty.

Of course, if you’re like me and wear a wig, that sucker is gonna come off sometime during the act, unless you’ve stapled it to your skull.

And then there’s the entire issue of cleanliness. After all, you don’t want to get your sexy party dress stained with makeup or…fluids. One could run up a sizable dry cleaning bill.

Considering all these factors, it’s easy to see why most crossdressers find it easier to engage in their sexual proclivities with their favorite lover: themselves.

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