Amanita

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Amanita is honored to accompany trans people from all around the world.
She has experienced transitioning with her partner, who came out as trans shortly after they met. Then, she supported friends, acquaintances and trans people in her local community. She now dedicates her pedagogical and psychological counseling to trans people around the world online. She is co-author of "A Love Letter. To You" (Lia Lovelace, Amanita M. Nomi).

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“My wife is not a controversy!” 

| May 15, 2023

Amanita contributed to TGForum with an advice column titled Ask Amanita. She is a gender counselor and activist who advocates for the transgender community. Her spouse is a trans woman. This post is about how her wife’s transition, which Amanita fully supported, caused changes in their social standing in their community. How they had to make new friends when the old ones retreated, and how much the discrimination hurts. Share this post with any cisgender allies.

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Ask Amanita

| Apr 20, 2020 | Reply

Do you have a gender question and don’t know where to turn? If so Ask Amanita! Amanita is a gender counselor who offers counseling to trans people around the world online. We’re happy to have her available here on TGForum. Today Amanita answers a question how to cope as an isolated trans person in a quarantined world.

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Ask Amanita

| Mar 23, 2020 | Reply

Today a reader asks Amanita how to handle coming out as transgender to a longtime friend. The friend has made transphobic statements from time to time and the reader is afraid that when they come out they will be rejected. See what Amanita counsels in this edition of Ask Amanita.

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Ask Amanita, “Was I a man?”

| Feb 24, 2020 | Reply

Dear Amanita,  When I hear other trans women talk and write about their past, I often wonder: Did I used to be a boy or have I always been a girl? I have only found out that I’m a woman five years ago. Does this mean, I used to be a man? Or have I […]

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Ask Amanita

| Jan 27, 2020 | Reply

Ask Amanita is the spot on TGForum where you can ask questions and get answers from a therapist specializing in transgender issues. Today Amanita is asked about the concerns a trans woman has concerning hormones. Should she start taking hormones? She would love to have the positive effects of hormones but worries about the negative ones, and, if she doesn’t take them how will she be seen by her trans friends? Read Amanita’s answer today and send your questions to her.

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