Things I Have Done!
Lola, Kandi, and Bugs.
So as not to get repetitive, everything on this list was obviously done while dressed and probably is not a comprehensive list. It is in no particular order. I am doing this list to show those out there who have a fear of being in public what is actually possible. Remember, I have only been doing this for a bit over six month and as you can tell, I have never “passed” and never will.
- Been in a movie, as two separate characters.
- Gotten two separate traffic tickets.
- Gone to traffic court twice (for the same ticket, and won).
- Been to the symphony.
- Had a professional transformation makeover and photo shoot.
- Done photo shoots (having done my own makeup).
- Worked the Space Jam world premier!
- Shopped for anything and everything (including lingerie) in both male and female modes.
- Volunteered significantly for many different organizations, including mainstream charities, community theaters, art museum and many other places.
- Attended conferences and/or group gatherings for those like myself.
- Been an integral part of two separate church congregations.
- Had numerous bridal fittings.
- Had numerous bra fittings.
- Get a haircut at a salon (remove my wig, get the cut, replace the wig).
- Met numerous people at mainstream establishments with whom I have remained friends.
- Taken numerous Sephora makeup classes.
- Had numerous makeovers.
- Been to the beach several times
- Had drinks and meals purchased for me by total strangers.
- Taken cooking classes.
- Attended the theater.
- Attended a murder mystery (alone).
- Crashed a wedding.
- Attended a handful of weddings with a musician friend who was performing (once actually sitting on the side of the altar).
- Had minor surgery.
- Frequent doctor’s appointments.
- Taken hot yoga classes.
- Taken spin classes.
- Worked out at Planet Fitness.
- Gotten a massage.
- Currently am taking improv classes.
- I’ll be adding modeling to the above list!! I have recently been named a runway model for the Ohio Fashion Week 2021 Black Tie Gala!
I am sure there are a few things I have missed, but the point is, if you want to do something, then do it!
I am a finalist to walk the runway in two bridal fashion shows as well.
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Kandi is married with two grown daughters. Her wife is fully supportive. Under normal circumstances, she goes out usually three times a week, either to her church, as a volunteer or to do what women do! She volunteers for over 25 organizations and makes no apologies about who she is and has found complete acceptance by the general public.Subscribe
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