‘Splain something to me, please…

| Mar 8, 2007
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There’s so damn much I don’t understand about this whole transgender thing. You’d think after umpteen years, I’d have a pretty good idea about what’s going on inside my head. But, I’m continually coming across things that baffle me.

Like the entire forced feminization thing.

I had been operating on the theory that it was primarily a rationalization mechanism; The fantasy of being forced to dress up in women’s clothing circumvented the guilt associated with dressing up. “It’s not my fault!” the person in question could tell themselves.

But, take my case. Please. As previously mentioned, I’ve been doing this for umpteen years. (That’s a technical term.) I’ve come to terms with who I am, and I dress up of my own free will. There’s no guilt. I’m what you might call a liberated t-girl.

Yet, every now and then, the entire idea piques my interest. It may be a piece of erotic fiction, or an image that sets my imagination wild.

Let’s face it. If someone tried to blackmail me, or otherwise force or coerce me into a feminine state, I’d capitulate happily. When do we start? Yet, the idea of forced feminization is still … intriguing from time to time.

It’s obviously not about guilt. Is it about power, and the loss of control? I’m not a control freak, but I do like to be the captain of my own ship…

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Ronnie Rho has been writing for Transgender Forum since May of 1999. One of these days, she'll get it right. She's been described as the "world's most famous recluse," but only by people who don't know her very well. She is unmarried, and lives in Cincinnati.

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  1. says:

    Astra is on targte with all her explanations. There is an additional thrill that comes with forced dressing and that is the person doing teh forcing wants to complete the already existing perception that you would be more desirable as a female.

  2. says:

    The reasons are as individual as each individual (ain’t I profound?).
    Perhaps one reason is if someone is forcing you to crossdress you can probably assume that they are enjoying it as much as you are (after all, they started it) and it relives your worries about what your “partner” might be thinking about you?