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Julie Slowinski is a married crossdresser from Chicago who loves to make the most of her time en femme when she is out and about. She joins TGForum to share her adventures.

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Your Wiggle, and Some Fun

| Jan 31, 2022 | Reply

Julie Slowinski posts a tip on how to improve your feminine walk. It’s all about finding your pivot point. Then she shares some of her latest activities including her review of a skirt bought from an online shop and a visit to the theater during her trip to Boston.

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Wigs, Wigs and More Wigs

| Dec 6, 2021 | Reply

A question from someone on Instagram asking about Julie’s hair sparked a whole post on TGForum. Wigs, Wigs, and More Wigs! With lots of photos of the wigs Julie currently has in rotation. And, she includes wig advice on everything from finding the right one to wig care. You’ll flip your wig over this post!

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Give Yourself Permission To Be Both

| Nov 8, 2021 | Reply

Like many part time ladies Julie Slowinski balances her responsibilities as a father and bread winner with her need to dress up and be a party girl. Today’s report from Julie is not the usual rundown of what she wore and where she went while wearing it. It’s a look at that balancing act and why she is content being dad and being Julie. And don’t worry, she manages to get some photos into the post.

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Gender Shakes and Paint the Town

| Oct 11, 2021 | Reply

Today’s post by crossdressing social butterfly Julie Slowinski is a twofer. First she reports on the fun from an August outing called Gender Shake, and then promotes an upcoming event in Chicago set for early next year. It’s called Paint the Town. Get all the important details in today’s tale of a part-time princess.

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A Simple Night Out

| Sep 13, 2021 | Reply

Julie and a friend decide to do a simple night out and visit a burlesque show with a dark arts, Goth theme. She obsesses over a dress, gets compliments wearing it and gets some tips on how to get deeper into burlesque performance. Oh, and she and her friend have drinks, dinner, and fun. Read all about it in A Simple Night Out.

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A Night at Reggie’s 

| Aug 23, 2021 | Reply

Julie’s pal Niki was coming through Chicago on her way to a gettogether in Detroit so it presented a great opportunity for Julie to slip into her new black and white mini skirt and show Niki the town. First up on the girl’s night out was Chinatown where Niki and Julie met up with Coleen, Lana and Rubi for dinner. Then it’s off to find some live music. Read this Part-time Princess tale and find out what they wore, where they went, what they did, and who’s Reggie?

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Julie’s Weekend With (Mostly) Cis People

| Jul 19, 2021 | Reply

Our girl out and about, Julie Slowinski, hit the streets of Chicago for a weekend of crossdressed fun and she shares all the details with you. From the art museum to live jazz and of course dining and sipping ladylike libations, Julie lets you in on her fun.

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Fun Weekday in the City

| Jun 21, 2021 | Reply

About a week before the “Womanish” outing I attended a zoom meeting hosted by TG Detroit. My friend Niki happened to be there, so I said hi to her in the chat box. Turns out she was planning to be in Chicago the week after the Womanish weekend. After the zoom meeting, we talked some […]

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Getting the Band Back Together 

| May 24, 2021 | Reply

Julie Slowinski gets the band back together for a Saturday night fun time. The ladies get dolled up and take in an art exhibit called Womanish then head to an upscale eatery for a fab dinner. Be a part of Julie and company’s crossdressing escapade and enjoy the vicarious thrill of being out en femme in Chicago.

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Julie’s Triumphant Return to Boystown

| May 3, 2021 | Reply

Boystown in Chicago is one of the most country’s inclusive LGBTQ+ communities and the oldest officially recognized gay neighborhood in the country. It’s known for its welcoming vibe, nonstop nightlife, LGBTQ-owned businesses, and excellent dining options. Covid-19 put a damper on that nightlife and Julie Slowinski, a normally enthusiastic patron of the area’s offerings, was reluctant to return to her usual haunts over concerns about the lack of social distancing. Last weekend she decided it was time and returned to Boystown. Triumphantly.

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A Very Pink Day

| Mar 29, 2021 | Reply

With her wife out of town and the kids staying with grandma, Julie has a free Saturday to dress up and get out for fun. What all does she get up to and who does she do it with? Read on for the day’s itinerary. Hint: Shopping and cocktails are on the to-do list.

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First Julie Day of 2021

| Mar 1, 2021 | Reply

COVID-19 regulations made it hard for Julie to have any fun in the Windy City last year. The rule banning indoor dining at restaurants was particularly hard on her and her friends as an evening out after a day of shopping was most often a test of how well the ladies tolerated the cold. The new year offered an improvement in the COVID numbers so Julie and a friend planned a girls night out, that started with Julie running some errands, the a visit to the art museum before dinner and drinks. Get all the details from our part-time princess.

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From the Julie Archives: 6 Outings in 3 Weeks 

| Feb 1, 2021 | Reply

In 2017 a newbie to the world of crossdressing had six crossdressed forays in a short period of time. That newbie was our Julie Slowinski and today she documents that whirlwind of dressing up and offers some advice based on her experience progressing from newbie to fashionable crossdresser about town.

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Julie’s NYE Celebration — Kinda

| Jan 4, 2021 | Reply

Julie and a couple of her friends decided to stage a Faux New Year’s Eve party the Monday before the actual event. Of course there were preparations to be made, some shopping in the afternoon, looking at new glasses and picking the restaurant for dinner, the spot for after dinner drinks and then the addition of one more place for one more drink. And then there was the champagne back at the hotel room.

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Super Awesome Shopping Day 

| Dec 7, 2020 | Reply

For a married crossdresser whose wife is aware but the children don’t know dad has a much softer side it can be hard to get out and have dress up fun. Especially during a pandemic that has many of a crossdresser’s usual haunts shutdown, either early or completely. Julie Slowinski is one such lady who has to plan painstakingly and in advance to have a few hours of fun. This month she tells us about a simple shopping day followed by dinner. This outing didn’t take a lot of planning, and she got to try on some cute dresses. Check out her Super Awesome Shopping Day.

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A Couple Days in Wicker Park

| Nov 9, 2020 | Reply

Julie Slowinski is a girl who loves to get out and about. The pandemic has curtailed her crossdressing fun just like it has for most fun, but, after suffering with only one or two masked, socially distanced outings she heard from a friend who thought it might be the time to patronize a French restaurant they both like. So the planning began. Crossdressers should be put in charge of logistics for major projects. You’ll see why when you check out the amount of planning it took to get Julie out and about in Wicker Park.

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Jazz, Spade, and the Case of The Missing Cardigan

| Oct 12, 2020 | Reply

A pandemic can’t keep Julie Slowinski down. As restaurants and other venues have reopened Julie and her pals made plans and got out and about en femme. Today she blogs about a fun weekend, and tells you about some bargains she acquired that will definitely make you jealous.

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Butterfly and Chameleon

| Sep 14, 2020 | Reply

Julie Slowinski is our Contributor from Chicago. In a normal time she would be writing about all the fun she has in the Windy City expressing her femme side in various venues. From dining out to attending concerts, going to nightclubs and other activities that are the beat she covers for TGForum. In this time of Covid-19 she has been unable to get out and about very much. So this month Julie shares a tale she wrote several years ago. It’s a conversation between a butterfly and a chameleon.

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Drive-in Drag!

| Aug 17, 2020 | Reply

The pandemic has messed up a lot of crossdresser’s plans for femme fun. With nightclubs and bars being closed, and for a time, department stores and other suppliers of femme finery limited to online ordering, it seemed that there was no fun to be had for the girls. But, people are adapting and shows are changing to reflect the new reality. Julie Slowinski and her friends got together for a drive-in drag show. Here is her report.

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Julie Does Pittsburgh — 2018

| Jul 20, 2020 | Reply

With no recent adventures to recount for you, gentle readers, Julie Slowinsky, our part time princess, delves into her memories and tells the tale of her “business trip” to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania in 2018. While the business portion was wrapped up fairly quickly Julie was let loose seeking fun every night. She found plenty of it in the Steel City and shares it all with you in today’s blog.

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Chicago Drag March For Change

| Jun 22, 2020 | Reply

On June 14 in Chicago there was a protest march called Drag March. It brought together drag queens, kings, and everything in between as they lead a peaceful (non-violent) protest march in support of Black Lives Matter. One of those attending the march and showing her support for the cause was our crossdresser correspondent from Chicago, Miss Julie Slowinski.

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Makeup Memories 

| May 25, 2020 | Reply

Given our Chicago correspondent’s home situation isolating at home has meant no feminine activities. She hasn’t put on makeup in three months and she fears that when she is finally able to paint and primp she may have forgotten how it’s done. To fight that feeling Julie has written her blog on her beautification process. If she can remember all the steps after three months she will stop worrying about losing the knowledge. And she posts a blog filled with her makeup tips!

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Somewhere On Facebook

| Apr 27, 2020 | Reply

Living in the 21st century we are now able to use the internet to learn things, communicate with others and even set up musical jam sessions with players located at many different places. This wonderful technology is even more useful and important during the current pandemic. That said, some of the social networking that goes on seems to be more “anti-social.” Rather than unite the transgender community platforms like Facebook seem to be doing more to divide us. Today Julie Slowinski has some thoughts on this phenomena.

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In the COVID Closet 

| Mar 30, 2020 | Reply

In this time of social distancing and self isolating our normal routines are suddenly gone. Dressing up and going out to dinner, happy hour or a club is no longe possible, or from a health standpoint practical. What do crossdressers who depend on a certain schedule and life circumstances to squeeze in those opportunities to dress up do when they have to stay in their homes with family members who are not aware of their “hobby”? Julie Slowinski had some fun planned during an upcoming work trip out of town. A trip that has been cancled. How is she coping?

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“Memento” Day in Chicago

| Mar 2, 2020 | Reply

Julie Slowinski treated herself to a solo Julie day. She started with a nail appointment, then took in some art, tried on corsets and did a pub, or club crawl. She caught some jazz, a drag show and more. She tells the tale of her day in the style of the ’90s film Momento, going from the end of the evening until the start of her day. Don’t miss this tale of a part-time princess!

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Julie Does Burlesque 

| Feb 3, 2020 | Reply

Julie Slowinski volunteered to be the dollar girl at a drag show, during Pinkfest. That’s the assistant who gathers the dollar bills fans of the drag queens toss on stage. Once she got a taste of showbiz and being on stage she was hooked. She decided she’d participate in a drag show. The only problem? She didn’t dance. So she took a beginning class in burlesque thinking she would learn how to dance. That lead her into doing a burlesque routine on stage in front of a big crowd. Read on for her part time princess tale. With photos of her burlesque costume, of course.

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