A Friend to Everyone? Not Exactly
“Our modern world increasingly accepts varied genders,” the Global Post quotes Pongcharoen as saying …“Bangkok must be a city that understands sexual differences, not just accepting different lifestyles … it must be a friend to every difference.”
(The Diplomat ?@Diplomat_APAC, Thai Transgender Community Finds its Voice http://bit.ly/11W2gMw )
I beg to differ.
After reading this article, I strongly disagree with this extreme one-sided point of view. The Global Post forgot many millions of women, most of whom where deceived from the moment they had an intimate relationship with an undisclosed crossdresser, transvestite. The Global Post praises the transgender community and claims to be a friend to all. That is an insult to too many millions of women who have been betrayed, lied to, deceived and too many were destroyed over living with their husband ‘secrets, which became the wives.
If you are a friend to all then — what have you done to help the crossdressers, transgender, transsexual WIFE? The WIVES are not being embraced — when they have the courage to speak, too many get bashed. The evidence is clear — read the 400,000 Internet sites about crossdressers. Most of those cites are critical, and brutal towards what they deem as disapproving wives. Guess what — many of your wives are so disapproving. And what are you doing to help her come out of her closet? It is not all about you. You dragged her into this by 70% of you lying and not disclosing. So, knowing that, what have you done to help your wife?
Have you ever initiated a dialogue with your wife about the things that she needs from you? How can you make her life easier? Do you know what she is going through? You are not the only one thinking about your bags of “STUFF.”
Can therapy help you to better communicate with each other? Can you focus on her needs for a while? If you do not know what her needs are it is you responsibility to find out — if you love her and want to keep your marriage.
Our modern world is oblivious; not only to the needs of crossdresser’s wives, but does not even acknowledge our existence. It is vital for people to become accepting of others and their differences — even crossdresser’s wives!
It is high time to embrace crossdresser’s wives!
Blessings,
Dee A, Levy, MA
The Crossdresser’s WIfe *Our Secret Lives
www.crossdresserswives.com
Category: Transgender Opinion
About the Author (Author Profile)
Dee A. Levy is the former spouse of a crossdresser. She has a BA in Women Studies and MA in Social Sciences and Comparative Education. She is the author of The Cross Dresser's Wife -- Our Secret Lives, available at Amazon.com, Kindle, Barnes and Noble, & www.crossdresserswives.com.Subscribe
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