I am a trendy lady who appreciates her \\\"Carmen\\\" time more and more as time goes on. I have found that the best way to look at my transgenderism is that it truely is a blessing. I consider myself very passable but aware persons can figure out that I am cross dressed. A sales associate in a store once told me when I was out shopping, \\\"hon you are able to pull off something that so many guys wish they could do.\\\" It was wonderful to hear that!!
