Do Not Get Caught RED Handed!

This is the time for cheer and celebration. For those of you who are married — and I know many of you are — how are you making this holiday season a happy one for your family?

The holidays are normally a time of good stress and bad stress but nonetheless — stress is often a big factor during this season and should be addressed now.

Are you helping or hurting the situation? Has your crossdressing increased? Frustration level increase? Perhaps if you tried to focus on making your wife and children happy — you could have a jolly ol’ holiday!

This time IF you dress up — maybe do it as Santa. At least, Santa represents fun, happiness, cheer etc. Many CD & TG wives have so many fears of what the hell you are going to wear next! Surprise them by being Santa. That is another way to bring FUN back into the marriage and the household. You don’t mind taking all the time; money, expense and planning to get your women’s wardrobe together — why not focus on someone other than yourselves? Bring JOY into the holidays — not the “JOY” femme name you are in the bedroom.

It is important to know what some crossdressers’ wives have done in the past regarding crossdressing and how it can impact the holidays. Please know, the best thing about these stories is they are all true … you might want to take heed.

One crossdresser’s wife simply had it with her crossdressing husband’s dressing and disrespect for her during the holidays. She finally figured out a way to force her oblivious and perhaps selfish husband to stop crossdressing in front of her. She dressed up all of the dogs in his lingerie. Everyone was asking questions — she replied to all, “ ask my husband.” It did not take long for the husband to STOP crossdressing in front of her. And she took the lingerie off the dogs and hasn’t seen it on her husband since then.

Last year another crossdressers wife, on a cold December late afternoon, watched as the UPS driver threw a package over her gate. He did not read the sign: Leave packages at the gate. So her two German shepherds started immediately to shred the giant box — and she can see it is red lingerie and red silk dress — all being torn to pieces. She switched from drinking a cup of tea to wine. When her crossdressing husband pulled up in his new shiny Jag — he ran all over the fresh new foot of snow on his mansion grounds, desperately trying to grab up all of the evidence he could.

The bright red shreds of silk lay all over the otherwise beautiful shiny, white snow.

When he went inside holding all of the pieces of his long awaited holiday wardrobe, all she said was, “Even the dogs know what you are doing is wrong.” He never said one word. He told her he had stopped crossdressing the week before the delivery. You could say, he was caught RED handed.

Now, do you have any special plans that SHE would like? Do you want your cats and dogs dressed up in lingerie while your parents are visiting for the holidays? Or, would you prefer your expensive new secret lingerie and your red silk holiday dress torn up in shreds-all over your lawn? You see-it is ALL YOUR CHOICE!

Merry Holidays and a Great 2014!
Dee A Levy, MA
The Cross Dresser’s Wife * Our Secret Lives

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