Reply To: Dating While Transgender
I’ve been on POF for a while and am upfront with my identity as a trans woman. A few men who are attracted reach out politely. More than a few “Tranny Chasers” send notes that get right to the point (although I think POF has built in censor bots). Some “have always fantasized about girls like me” or are “curious”. And some are downright cruel or ignorant or both- “do you have a pussy or not?” “Are those tits real?” “Bet you are a good co*cksucker”. Only once or twice have I been messaged with insults “freak/abomination etc”. I will also reach out to attractive men who have looked at and liked my profile and I start out by confirming that they know exactly who and what I am. Some are totally aware, and others politely decline. Only a few get angry. All of the other dating sites that cater to trans women are scams. And frankly- if trans women are the attraction- why the hell should they be asked to pay a membership fee? Discuss! ?