Reply To: Men Attracted to Trans Women

[Marti]

Greetings, I write in this forum to be able to get advice regarding my situation. I have been in a 4 year relationship with a guy who from the very beginning has always had a tendency to overdo it with regards to my sex life. Initially, for the first two years or so, I think he contained himself with regard to his fantasies, but a confession he made to me, after a few months of dating, was that years earlier he had dated a woman, who only later discovered he was transgender. Over time I have observed increasingly particular behaviors and requests, and from simple fantasy we have passed to requests for threesomes and above all the request for anal sex on him. The fantasies became more and more complex and normal sex no longer satisfied him. He later discovered that he had had several relationships with transgenders. In the last year he says he doesn’t feel pleasure in the sexual act, he only feels pleasure with oral sex on him and anal sex, always on him, or by watching naughty videos, but he doesn’t try to have a complete relationship with me and the few times he makes an effort, the penetration lasts a few seconds and then immediately withdraws. I would just like to understand if he is homosexual, because if he is, he should face a path to discover and accept himself.