Reply To: General Discussion of Transgender Issues

[DeeAnn]

It might be a bit premature to be thinking about doing the WildThang. I think both of you would have to come to the same conclusion about where the relationship is likely to go. That said, Heat of the Moment can be a powerful force.

I have no idea as to what your friend is thinking, but it would clearly be a better thing if she is not connecting romantic activities with “returning the favor”. I hope that was not her thinking, but you never know. However well-intentioned, that wouldn’t be good and may lead to some undesirable places. Further, it can be a good thing to allow her to pay you back (in $$) for the groceries as it would prevent her feeling beholden to you and help keep things in a more balanced condition.